Polarize

When the foundations of our personal world start shaking, fear gets a grip on us. As we lose our usual landmarks, we tend to jump to survival mode while the brain looks for protective strategies. Sometimes, as our reality crumbles, we can see the false truths on which we built our lives. Those root beliefs about our health, our couple, the structure of our world etc … are false. We don’t want to see the evidence and we hold on to a version of reality we think is safe for us. At the same time, other people hold another version of reality that makes them feel safe. And now we have opponents!…